Gloria’s mother, Pilar, wants to name the new kid on the block after her dead husband, Fulgencio. Jay isn’t going for that. He wants to name his son “Joe.” When he breaks the news to Pilar, he learns that she’s never liked him. She’s also packing heat. Actually, the gun is a gift that’s been in her family for years. Still, it has new dad Jay a little on edge. He also realizes that all his efforts to please his stubborn in-law over the years have been in vain. In other words, he’s Phil.